Hi Chaz, i have been watching all your videos and they have been very helpful. Recently i was in a 6 month relationship/ friends with benefits situation. He was a guy that I was talking to before, he was playing games so I dropped him. Then he came back and I took him back the second time and he continued with the games and we both mutilly ended it. Then 6 months passed and he came back a third time. I took him back telling myself that it was the last time. This time I took everything slow. I didn't want to be his girlfriend and I certainly wasn't sleeping with him and we became friends. Then he started wanting to have sex with me and I really wanted him, so we talked about it and we agreed to a friends with benefit situation. However, he was telling me that he loved me, having me do girlfriend things, acting jealous so i got confused and started to treat him like he were my boyfriend. Then I came to the realization that I couldn't handle the friends with benefit arrangement and was going to tell him that we are either together or we have to end things. This boy then surprises me by dumping me. He comes over to my house, has sex with me and tells me that he is telling everybody goodbye. I didn't knwo what that meant, so I was like, "do you have a girlfriend?" he wouldn't responde, then he hits me with the whole, "am I your husband? Am i your boyfriend, why are you tripping?" He tells me that was the last time i'll ever see him again and leaves. I'm so hurt, i feel used, i feel stupid. How do i move on? what should i do to feel better about myself?
Hi Chaz, i have been watching all your videos and they have been very helpful. Recently i was in a 6 month relationship/ friends with benefits situation. He was a guy that I was talking to before, he was playing games so I dropped him. Then he came back and I took him back the second time and he continued with the games and we both mutilly ended it. Then 6 months passed and he came back a third time. I took him back telling myself that it was the last time. This time I took everything slow. I didn't want to be his girlfriend and I certainly wasn't sleeping with him and we became friends. Then he started wanting to have sex with me and I really wanted him, so we talked about it and we agreed to a friends with benefit situation. However, he was telling me that he loved me, having me do girlfriend things, acting jealous so i got confused and started to treat him like he were my boyfriend. Then I came to the realization that I couldn't handle the friends with benefit arrangement and was going to tell him that we are either together or we have to end things.
ReplyDeleteThis boy then surprises me by dumping me. He comes over to my house, has sex with me and tells me that he is telling everybody goodbye. I didn't knwo what that meant, so I was like, "do you have a girlfriend?" he wouldn't responde, then he hits me with the whole, "am I your husband? Am i your boyfriend, why are you tripping?" He tells me that was the last time i'll ever see him again and leaves.
I'm so hurt, i feel used, i feel stupid. How do i move on? what should i do to feel better about myself?